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“I want to know… Justin Bieber, Britney Spears and Wakim (PBB 8) Have It!”- Webseries 5

Jon Pedragosa — Mon, 13 May 2019 16:56:13 +0000

I will provide the easiest explanation about the topic so that our readers can understand very well the issue of EUPD. According to Wikipedia, emotionally unstable personality (EUPD) is a long-term pattern of abnormal behavior characterized by the following:

Unstable relationships with other people
Unstable sense of self and unstable emotions.
There is often dangerous behavior and self-harm.
People may also struggle with a feeling of emptiness
Fear of abandonment.

Symptoms may be brought on by seemingly normal events. The behavior typically begins by early adulthood and occurs across a variety of situations. We have notice that the condition starts from childhood who experienced maltreatment and sexual abuse. Let us understand the issue of maltreatment and sexual abuse so that we have a forehand information on why it develops to EUPD.

As per study, there is a strong correlation between child abuse, especially child sexual abuse and development of EUPD. Many individuals experienced the history of abuse and neglect as young children but still not confirmed. Patients with EUPD have been found to be significantly more likely to report having been verbally, emotionally, physically, or sexually abused. For some countries, caregivers are the one who initiate the abuse but for others it is their parents or their relatives. It has been suggested that children who experience chronic early maltreatment have tendencies to develop EUPD.

With World Health Organization reports, childhood maltreatment is characterized by abused and neglect for children under 18 years old. It includes all types of physical and/or emotional ill-treatment, sexual abuse, neglect, negligence and commercial or other exploitation, which results in actual or potential harm to the child’s health, survival, development or dignity in the context of a relationship of responsibility, trust or power. Exposure to intimate partner violence is also sometimes included as a form of child maltreatment.

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“What are the symptoms… Justin Bieber, Britney Spears and Wakim (PBB 8) Have It?”- Webseries 4

Jon Pedragosa — Sun, 12 May 2019 16:30:44 +0000

I will discuss what is EUPD (emotionally unstable personality disorder) or BPD (borderline personality disorder) and correlated cause of EUPD, maybe both husband and wife are now suffering from this disorder that they don’t know why so much hatred is being accumulated and where it is coming from.

Find-out below the different symptoms of EUPD that leads to domestic violence between husband and wife. These are different situations where the wife and husband suffer emotionally, you can add your comments so that we can have more in depth understanding of the issue as to guide the families suffering for this kind of disorder:

Either the husband or wife cannot present the argument on calm manner.
Being disrespectful and obnoxious to his/her parents and parents-in-law in all situations.
Swinging moods, erratic behavior that leads to inconsistent decision making, one day he/she is okay then another day is hell atmosphere.
Manifest pathological lying by creating unverifiable stories.
Adopting advice not suited to the problems, always use reference (eg. this person is the one who made it, why this person) or blame others whenever he/she is needed to make his/her decisions.
Lack of true self or word of honor.
Opportunist who takes advantage of others rather than what he/she will give.
Not a home buddy, wants always to go out of the house. He /She feels toxic when inside the house.
Peers oriented that the house is the meeting point of all his/ her friends.
Impulsive and judgmental to other people.
Has a mentality of being suspicious and doubtful to other people, creating a notion that someone has a relationship with any other person.
Has a notion of feeling deprived even he/she has so many things, jewelries, good dresses, house, car and many more.
Always hysterical
Apprehension on changing his/her field, dependent in all aspects.
Showy attitude
Has tendency to dominate his/ her partner, he/she is not thinking of his/ her words.
Nymphomaniac or no control in his/ her sexual desire even in open space or in trike parking area.
Mental depression and disturbance.

These are the symptoms that you can find-out to your partner who are suffering from emotionally unstable personality. These symptoms open lead to quarrel if not counselled or treated. An advice to those single that you need to know your partner before going to marriage, you may not know that the person has a long history of sexual abuse that requires treatment before marriage to gain his/ her respect to his/herself.

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“I think my wife is disturbed… Justin Bieber, Britney Spears and Wakim (PBB 8) Have It!”-Webseries 3

Jon Pedragosa — Fri, 10 May 2019 17:00:24 +0000

Why I am discussing about EUPD, because one of our readers sent a disturbing email in his relationship with his wife. I will make his name anonymous to keep his privacy secret from our readers and to keeps his family covered on any issue regarding our topic, here is the excerpt of the email:

“Dear Jerichos Place,

I am an OFW working here in South Korea, I am really disturbed that I am affected already by the kind of mentality of my wife. Before I can control myself, but I am becoming agitated already about her as we don’t have good memory of each other and even good communication. My wife doesn’t know how to focus herself in a conversation. She will tell only negative of her officemates, her supervisors and other people in their office every time she called me which is frustrating. She is coming home from work as if she is tired, but she came only with her peers having coffee outside.

I just notice that when she is at home there is no joy on her face, I am not exaggerating but the house will be turned into a haunted house because she doesn’t care of cleaning. All light switches are broken that she doesn’t care to repair. She has no schedule for everything, her personality seems very odd.

I have notice that she doesn’t have permanent friend, the one sticking with her is the people who only borrowed money from her or people that she is forced to close with for favors or her advantage but identified sticking with her even on college days. She has some friends in high school but not as solid real friends. She is not close to her sisters and brothers, even my mother is not closed with her. Our son is confused with her personality as she has no plan on everything but more of being impulsive.

Her ways are more of demure kind of personality…other words “pa-virgin effect”. On the first time you met her, she represents an aura of being approachable, she is like showing cordial but after a distant you can hear slanting words, she is so pretentious.

I am personally not the expert of the issue but because of the email sent so I am alarmed that I decided to feature the article to provide awareness regarding this disorder that affecting the domicile foundation of the family especially our OFW families.

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“Why you can’t admit…Justin Bieber, Britney Spears and Wakim (PBB 8) Have It !”- Webseries 2

Jon Pedragosa — Thu, 09 May 2019 13:49:39 +0000

As to start, I want you to answer simple questions down below to give you the idea about our topic. The questions are not the standard format of actual questionnaires regarding emotionally unstable personality disorder or EUPD, but it will give you a better picture once you or one of your family encounters the dilemma on EUPD. It will help you recognize and understand yourself that you can rectify straight away or will give you a signal to call for medical help or counselling.

Please answer the below questions by your heart if below eight (8) instances suited your personality.

Is your mood fluctuating or changing frequently?
Are you too needy that you think your partner is your savior or too much clingy on your relationship?
You can’t control your emotions on any given time and occasions that you expressed extreme hatred or happiness?
Do you play as a victim on any given circumstances, blaming others to the fault that you have done and being an attention seeker?
Are you prone to lying, intentionally creating drama and simply neglecting the question/s of your partner to divert his/her attention on another situation?
Do you have extreme habits or manic behavior where you tend to overdo certain activity/ies at home that you get your satisfaction, security and relaxation?
Having an erratic or unresolved issue repeatedly with partner that causes fight or having a hard time keeping a stable or peaceful relationship?
Your face looks sad and your feeling seems heavy when you are staying longer inside the house that you end-up socializing with your friends and colleagues to be the center of their attention and to escape the atmosphere of the house, do you remember sad memory from your childhood that you feel depressed when staying longer inside the house?

There is no one will help you but yourself. Always think that the cure to the problem is the admittance before can be rectified.

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Justin Bieber, Britney Spears and Wakim (PBB 8) Have It!

Jon Pedragosa — Wed, 08 May 2019 14:12:04 +0000

Dear Bestfriend JPs and OFWs around the world, just recently Justin Bieber announced prioritizing his mental health therapy as he said on his Instagram on fixing his “deep rooted issues” as a way to become a better husband. He said he will be back soon to offer the fans new album and a better him.

Another Hollywood celebrity entered the mental health facility to address the emotional stress that she is experiencing over the decline of her father’s health. Britney Spears announced that he is having a “me time” to heal herself. She will be in the undisclosed facility for the duration of 30 days treatment.

After the Hollywood, you can watch Wakim of PBB 8 openly discussing the issue of metal health. His brilliance and braveness on the issue of bipolar and anxiety disorder provide huge awareness and clarity on the topic of mental disorder in the Philippine scene.

Our topic will focus more on emotionally unstable personality disorder that is a common borderline personality disorder. As per statistics of US National Institutes of Health data of 2008, there was around 5.9% suffering in US for EUPD for a total of 1.6 % in population with this kind of disorder that causes break-up of the family if not diagnosed, controlled and treated professionally.

Before you read the full article, “you too” can share your views to have a healthy conversation about it as to lessen the stigma in our society. Comment and tag your family below to know your side!

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The Webseries of a Trash Talker

Jon Pedragosa — Fri, 03 May 2019 16:11:21 +0000

Is your colleague creating a nasty tidbit trash talk about you and your team when you are outside of the room or when you are taking your comfort time, beware he might be one of the snakes spoiling your reputation inside your office!

This is disturbing to find-out that one of your trusted colleagues is the one back fighting when you are away, not only to you but with the whole team. We will call this person an Ass Ho who micro-manage each one of you in your office by giving them little nasty trash talk of information to offend you.

Why a person is doing trash talk to his colleagues, who are these people doing this kind of activity and what they will gain of ruining the reputation of a team mate?

Trash talk is a nasty way of engaging to your opponents at his/her back in an office or a competitive atmosphere, an action of putting someone down with unkind word during his/her absence in an office or room. It is a bad way of building up confidence by ruining the reputation of your colleagues. The trash talk originated in online gaming where they used the different plethora of garbage words, some are racial slurs and others are below the belt words to intimidate the opponents.

3 Psychological Factors on Why a Person Creates a Trash Talk Behind:

1. Boast an ego to dominate a team – the person wants to prove to the management that he/she is ONLY the one capable of doing things. He/she will create snake pit to create little nasty talks to each and everyone to ruin his/her colleague reputation so that at time he/she is on vacation the work will be destabilized to prove that his/her presence is important. Another thing, a mouth trasher hides a tendency of receiving bribes, so he/she needs to ruin the reputation of his/ her colleague to ensure of his/her dominance and kept things a secret.

2. Feeling of insecurity towards a colleague- a feeling of wanting to have more praises is to hide your insecurities towards your colleague through intimidation. This is to disappoint your colleague going to any member of management or appearing to his/her office every time. He/she will inject a tidbit of sarcastic or slur words to wipe-out the presence of his/her colleague whenever has a chance to be near with the management team.

3. Unexpressed anger or hate over the success of a colleague- an emotion that are not expressed openly leads to trash talk behind about your colleague. A mouth trasher when a particular colleague is in front of him/her behaves and creates praises about the goodness and contribution to a team but when he/she is away then his/her bad mouth starts to operate. This is a feeling of jealousy and envy toward the success of other people.

Below are the situations when a mouth trasher injects nasty tidbits trash talks towards his/her colleague. The radar of mouth trasher operates on different scenarios that you will not be aware since he/she is targeting to pull down anyone to creates destabilization and alarming situations in a team.

As to continue the activities of Ass Ho that we mentioned above, these are some of the common actions he/she is doing in a day:

1. Suspicious on any activity, achievement, attainment and ownership such as mobile, equipment and properties of his/ her colleague.

2. Accusing another colleague of being lazy then spreading it to others that he/ she requires to move or work faster as to pretend that he/she is intellectual and above anyone else.

3. Showing arrogance with his/her juniors by questioning their activities, gestures and movements.

4. Releasing of a half-baked information on any issue of access cards, tardiness and going home early of a colleague even without proper investigation.

5. Instructing a member of a team not to take any load from anyone including his/ her seniors to destabilize the function of another colleague.

The bad mouth of an Ass Ho creates division in a team, every time the other colleague went-out of their office then a mouth trasher starts to talk counting the time of the person for not being in the office. This kind of person must be counselled or eliminated in a team straight-away. The atmosphere this person creates is likely having a knife or a dagger at the back that ready to stab you anytime soon. This mouth trasher can ruin his/her reputation on the process and ruining the camaraderie of the members in a team.

Request your open advice to a mouth trasher; do you want to keep, avoid or set-aside?

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