I will discuss what is EUPD (emotionally unstable personality disorder) or BPD (borderline personality disorder) and correlated cause of EUPD, maybe both husband and wife are now suffering from this disorder that they don’t know why so much hatred is being accumulated and where it is coming from.

Find-out below the different symptoms of EUPD that leads to domestic violence between husband and wife. These are different situations where the wife and husband suffer emotionally, you can add your comments so that we can have more in depth understanding of the issue as to guide the families suffering for this kind of disorder:

1. Either the husband or wife cannot present the argument on calm manner.
2. Being disrespectful and obnoxious to his/her parents and parents-in-law in all situations.
3. Swinging moods, erratic behavior that leads to inconsistent decision making, one day he/she is okay then another day is hell atmosphere.
4. Manifest pathological lying by creating unverifiable stories.
5. Adopting advice not suited to the problems, always use reference (eg. this person is the one who made it, why this person) or blame others whenever he/she is needed to make his/her decisions.
6. Lack of true self or word of honor.
7. Opportunist who takes advantage of others rather than what he/she will give.
8. Not a home buddy, wants always to go out of the house. He /She feels toxic when inside the house.
9. Peers oriented that the house is the meeting point of all his/ her friends.
10. Impulsive and judgmental to other people.
11. Has a mentality of being suspicious and doubtful to other people, creating a notion that someone has a relationship with any other person.
12. Has a notion of feeling deprived even he/she has so many things, jewelries, good dresses, house, car and many more.
13. Always hysterical
14. Apprehension on changing his/her field, dependent in all aspects.
15. Showy attitude
16. Has tendency to dominate his/ her partner, he/she is not thinking of his/ her words.
17. Nymphomaniac or no control in his/ her sexual desire even in open space or in trike parking area.
18. Mental depression and disturbance.

These are the symptoms that you can find-out to your partner who are suffering from emotionally unstable personality. These symptoms open lead to quarrel if not counselled or treated. An advice to those single that you need to know your partner before going to marriage, you may not know that the person has a long history of sexual abuse that requires treatment before marriage to gain his/ her respect to his/herself.

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